Thirdwheeling

Hi, i was wonder if you had any advice on a current situation that i'm in. in my friends group there are 3 of us, however i get really sad and angry when i'm around them. & and tried to get out, so slowly i would hang out with other people, as i did one of the 2 other girls would get really sad so i came back, and she was happy again. the other friend seems happy enough with me gone, and i don't have a problem with that since she's grown to be really rude to me, and leave me out.
​Ella
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Ella, this sounds really difficult for you. I feel that, although your friend is sad when you try to work your way out of this friendship, you need to put yourself and your feelings first. This friendship sounds very tiring and to be honest, toxic. You need to put yourself first and perhaps try to maintain a separate friendship with the friend who does care about you. - Kenzie
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